Thursday, June 25, 2009

Perseverance, proving character, hope... and abounding in grace...


Romans 4
4Now when a man works, his wages are not credited to him as a gift, but as an obligation. 5However, to the man who does not work but trusts God who justifies the wicked, his faith is credited as righteousness.
6David says the same thing when he speaks of the blessedness of the man to whom God credits righteousness apart from works:
7"Blessed are they whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sins are covered.
8Blessed is the man whose sin the Lord will never count against him."

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16Therefore, the promise comes by faith, so that it may be by grace and may be guaranteed to all Abraham's offspring—not only to those who are of the law but also to those who are of the faith of Abraham. He is the father of us all.

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The above passages I have placed here for your reference... please, I beseech you to read all of Romans, but at the very least chapter 4... I only chose to include these passages, that you may understand the "therefore" that chapter 5 begins with... When EVER the bible begins a passage with "therefore" it is good to go back and find out... what it is there for... ;)

Romans 5
1Therefore, having been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ,
2through whom also we have obtained our introduction by faith into this grace in which we stand; and we exult in hope of the glory of God.
3And not only this, but we also exult in our tribulations, knowing that tribulation brings about perseverance;
4and perseverance, proven character; and proven character, hope;
5and hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us.
6For while we were still helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly.
7For one will hardly die for a righteous man; though perhaps for the good man someone would dare even to die.
8But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
9Much more then, having now been justified by His blood, we shall be saved from the wrath of God through Him.
10For if while we were enemies we were reconciled to God through the death of His Son, much more, having been reconciled, we shall be saved by His life.
11And not only this, but we also exult in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received the reconciliation.
12Therefore, just as through one man sin entered into the world, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men, because all sinned--
13for until the Law sin was in the world, but sin is not imputed when there is no law.
14Nevertheless death reigned from Adam until Moses, even over those who had not sinned in the likeness of the offense of Adam, who is a type of Him who was to come.
15But the free gift is not like the transgression. For if by the transgression of the one the many died, much more did the grace of God and the gift by the grace of the one Man, Jesus Christ, abound to the many.
16The gift is not like that which came through the one who sinned; for on the one hand the judgment arose from one transgression resulting in condemnation, but on the other hand the free gift arose from many transgressions resulting in justification.
17For if by the transgression of the one, death reigned through the one, much more those who receive the abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness will reign in life through the One, Jesus Christ.
18So then as through one transgression there resulted condemnation to all men, even so through one act of righteousness there resulted justification of life to all men.
19For as through the one man's disobedience the many were made sinners, even so through the obedience of the One the many will be made righteous.
20The Law came in so that the transgression would increase; but where sin increased, grace abounded all the more,
21so that, as sin reigned in death, even so grace would reign through righteousness to eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Tribulations... hmmm tribulation brings about perseverance? how wonderful... have you ever ACTUALLY thought about this...

Tribulations are NOT fun things... and persevering is tough stuff... this isn't some race, or smelly bus ride, that you JUST need to endure till your stop comes... this is hard life stuff, and persevering, can really be heart wrenching, clinging to Jesus, holding on for dear life stuff... but we have that peace from God....

yet sometimes it may elude you and me.. but it is there... if you aren't sure, haven't felt it just yet... talk to someone who does NOT know the Lord, really get to know people OUTside the christian circles you dwell in.. I don't mean "dump on them" I mean LISTEN to them... and you will learn... just because you aren't feeling the peace, like a trip you took in the 70's ~ does NOT mean you don't have it.. what it means is that your just numb from the tribulation right now... trust, and keep holding on... if you didn't have that peace... you'd REALLY be wigging out!

am I talking too frank for you... a little edgy perhaps.. well... I am in a little tribulation... living amongst unbelievers, most of whom barely speak the same language as I do... but I listen to them, I ask questions.... and in the midst of my tribulation, as my character is being "proven"... I hear...

that one of my most lovely friends, who comes from a Muslim Nation... would prefer to be a butterfly...

She can live then... beautifully, boldly, and die swiftly having lived a glorious albeit short life.... the standard bearing in her culture perhaps too much... the mental Burke overwhelming, demanding, demeaning to the point of despair... I worry for her, for we have not seen her lovely face now for some weeks... precious child... may she be free in Jesus Christ... may she turn to Him, who can save and redeem her, to live and breath and BE that beautiful girl she is...

What do I hear...
I hear many friends, most of whom have left countries, like the rhythms of the drums I hear their stories in my memory... stories of leaving their homelands & trying to start new here in France, some who long to come then to America.. perhaps coming From France, looks better on a Visa... than coming from... Algeria, Pakistan, Somalia, South Afrika, different areas of Asia....? hmm I do not know...I do not have answers to questions like these... no... not I...
I hear their instruments, so beautiful playing on the streets and how they tell me, so many, how they long to simply live here, in Lyon, for they are from what was once French Colonies... why not have their rights met in France?
What do I hear when I listen...
I hear the beating of the drums
I hear the guitars being played
I hear the crys of the people
I hear them ...
all night long
What do you hear...???
do you listen...?
Listen to the trials, to the tribulations of believers
and unbelievers as well?
... extending grace?
letting your character be proven...
It can really be shown to you in the listening... your peace... if you have it...
sometimes... they will tell you to your face.. they wish they had your peace...
funny, too... you may have not "felt" you had it... but... you do... you do have the Peace of God...
If you have Christ..
and with the perseverance, my character proven, there is hope... hope for me, and hope that I can share with them in Christ...
8But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
9Much more then, having now been justified by His blood, we shall be saved from the wrath of God through Him.
10For if while we were enemies we were reconciled to God through the death of His Son, much more, having been reconciled, we shall be saved by His life.
11And not only this, but we also exult in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received the reconciliation.
12Therefore, just as through one man sin entered into the world, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men, because all sinned--


That is the "good news" that needs to be told to all the peoples...

I think one of my favorite parts of this passage of scripture is when you follow it all the way through... because it is the hope.... it doesn't leave it at just the condemnation... just the "you are a sinner who needs saving" part.... and " I KNOW THE WAY!"... no
Romans doesn't do that... funny, preachers do.. but follow it all the way to the end...

For as through the one man's disobedience the many were made sinners, even so through the obedience of the One the many will be made righteous.
20The Law came in so that the transgression would increase; but where sin increased, grace abounded all the more,
21so that, as sin reigned in death, even so grace would reign through righteousness to eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
So through the ONE many will be made righteous...
I am being made righteous...
I am a work in progress
My children
My husband
are all works in progress....
and where transgression increased
where sin has increased
do I need to be MORE stern, more angry, more HARSH???
no.. the words in the good book, are so plain..
it says, grace should abound...all the more...
just as sin reigned in death
grace should reign through Righteousness...
does that mean they get away with stuff?
grace should reign through RIGHTEOUSNESS...
GRACE.... should REIGN through RIGHTEOUSNESS....
a whole lot to just sort of dwell upon ....
isn't it....

just taking a break from all that "christian-ese" I get fed in America...
and reading that book God wrote...
and dwelling....

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

thatmom

I do not often do this, but I was very encouraged today by a post on thatmom... I think it was so encouraging in fact, that i am putting the link here for you.... Don't be fooled by the title... It is all about family, and really, about parenting in grace.

thatmom organic gardening

I hope you are as encouraged as I was.

Thursday, June 11, 2009

ponderings

"The Worst of partialities is to withhold oneself, the worst ignorance is not to act, the worst lie is to steal away."
~ Charles Peguy

"In the fifth chapter of Ephesians, paul warns, "Let no one deceive you with empty words' (v.6). Repeatedly, he challenges God's people to speak Truth to one another. When we are not honest with each other, we actually do Satan's work for him, acting as his agents, deceiving and destroying each other."
~ Nancy Leigh DeMoss

"Everything in your spirtual life depends on the sort of God you worship. Because the character of the worshiper will always be molded by the character of what he worships: If it is a cruel and revengeful God the worshiper will be the same, but if it is a loving, tender, forgiving unselfish God, the worshiper will be transformed slowly, wonderfully into this likeness."
~ Hannah Whitall Smith

"God is good, and everything He does is good" (Psalm 119:68)

ponderings.....

Saturday, June 6, 2009

Looking at Fear and Part 3 of Standard Bearers....

Reading Part 3 of Norm Wakefields Standard Bearer's this morning, and I sit and meditate on the similarities and differences between the Standard bearer, and the True Image Bearer of Christ Jesus... Reading it reminds me of when my husband and I sat in Nouthetic Counseling Training sessions, and learned that the motive of the heart can change, it can change very quickly, in just a moment.

One example given by Norm was that the Standard Bearer ... "He lives in fear of others discovering his faults and inconsistencies (Prov. 10:9). " Where as the True Image bearer "He lives securely without fear (Prov. 10:9). "

Fear... the only fear one ought to have is Fear of the Lord... for it is the beginning of Wisdom...(Pr 9:10)

Yet fear can grip is, grabbing hold and simply terrorize us... Fear unchecked, and gone unnoticed can begin to take hold, with one of the first symptoms being Anger... Yes, anger, rage, quick fused responces.... With every unmet expectation, fear will sink its hideous claws deeper into the flesh... Fear of what others think, fear of not meeting life goals, fear of not achieving the days goals, fear of not... fill in the blank, fear of an outcome... what will happen...if... when..., fear of failure, fear of success... yes... because if one REALLY has any TRUE success in ONE are, will the other areas, those areas that one desires to remain hidden, will they be revealed for all to see... Fear is simply terrible... damned if you do... damned if you don't.. Fear can paralyze it's victim.. Christ came to Free us from this captivity...

Romans 8:15 "For you have not received a spirit of slavery leading to fear again, but you have received a spirit of adoption as sons by which we cry out, "Abba! Father!" "
I have learned through the study of Scripture, through reading good books like "Fear Worry and the God of Rest"(E. Welch) as well as this particular study by Norm Wakefield, The Standard bearers, as well as a variety of other worthy resources, that Fear can abound when you are a Standard Bearer as well as when you are under the direct influence of a Standard Bearer.... And this Fear, simply must be dealt with..... or it will grow...

I have also learned, as I briefly touched on earlier, that motives of the heart can change in a moment... And being surrounded by "Standard Bearers", can breed such a spirit in you.... motives once pure for Christ can suddenly through, the influence of often powerful, influencial, motivational, and very convicted speakers (the Standard bearer can be Very attractive), can be twisted and changed into a "standard..." You can find yourself bearing a standard someone else has placed upon you, and it's YOLK is NOT easy, it's BURDEN is not light...
Jesus explained how to know when it is HIM.... for His yolk IS easy.... His burden LIGHT....


for more on The Curse of the Standard Bearer, please click on the Link, and read what Norm has to teach... He has two helpful charts in Part 3, and they are most helpful indeed... I have walked through this series before, and am walking through it again for the third time.... Why?

Because breaking free of this mindset is ONE thing, but helping others, is another... I have need to break the cycle in my own home.. That my children would walk as True Image Bearers, knowing real relationship with Christ, and living IN Grace, not trying to live UP to anything, or anyones idea of it... May God's grace wash over you,
may His mercy heal and restore,
and may we rejoice in His fellowship Now, and Always...
remember YOU are loved...
Christ died for you....

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Living in this place of Grace - a look at "standard bearing" -N.Wakefield


Romans 8

"1Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.
2For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death.
3For what the Law could not do, weak as it was through the flesh, God did: sending His own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh and as an offering for sin, He condemned sin in the flesh,"


Living in this place of Grace ...
I feel like I can breath...
We have weathered some pretty big storms here
This past long year...
walked through some valleys
hung out in the desert,
and now are miles and miles and miles from our comfort zones...
Some of our "comfort zones" were getting less comfortable ...
and God has had a year or two now
to rustle things up
to show us things from another perspective
to grow us up
to stretch us,
and now we are in a place
where we can re examine GRACE....
"Standard Bearers?
Who are the Standard Bearers, and why such a strange descriptive title? I use the term standard because sincere, religious people usually have many standards they consider important to secure significance, praise, and reputation before God and man. Everyone has some standards they practice, but the issue in this article is the level of importance and significance people place on those standards.
I use the term bearers because that is the image they bear to others: Living by certain standards is a true sign of righteousness and spiritual maturity. Others often think of them as almost perfect or Christ-like in their talk and appearance being impressed with the way they live for Jesus. But there is a subtle, yet significant difference between someone living for Jesus and Jesus living in them. Unfortunately, the emphasis of a Standard Bearer rests on the standards rather than relationship.
Standard Bearers have an inconsistent application of God's character toward His creatures. For instance, when trying to convince a non-standard bearer of his need to change, they communicate that God is very stern. Yet when they deal with their own sin, they apply the view that God is forgiving and gracious. There's a disconnect between how they think God sees the sins of others not like them and how He sees their sin.
A True Image Bearer
In contrast, a True Image Bearer focuses on relationship with Jesus and has one aim: to be a conduit of the life and love of Jesus Christ for the glory of God and to lead others to experience the same blessing of such a powerful, love-engulfed, grace-filled relationship. Although his life is lived with standards perhaps similar to a Standard Bearer's, the root and motivation of his life is different - he recognizes his lifestyle as a gift of grace through his relationship with Jesus. The true image of Jesus wasn't a life focused on standards, but a life focused on a relationship with His Father in heaven.
Consequently, a True Image Bearer doesn't demand that others live by standards to gain approval, encouragement, and affirmation. They're more interested in the process of relationship with the Holy Spirit for others. People who live in close company with a True Image Bearer know that if they were to disappoint them or have another view, they would still be respected and valued.
True Image Bearers respect the Holy Spirit and His right to move, transform, and convince others. They apply the power of the cross-work of Jesus to those who haven't seen the light they have and consider the judgment of others a holy responsibility for Jesus alone. They don't think the Christian life is "living for Jesus", but instead it is "Jesus living in them" (Gal. 2:20). When people are around a True Image Bearer, they usually sense the love and presence of Jesus.
Often Standard Bearers think they are True Image Bearers because they have good feelings about themselves due to their commitment to standards. To them commitment to standards is the expression of their love for Jesus. However, they are not unlike the Pharisees in Jesus' day who viewed themselves as the "separated ones." In their zeal to be distinct in a complex, godless Greek culture, they established oral traditions (standards) and considered them not only equal to the written Law, but more important. Their judgment of others and lack of love, forgiveness, and grace was condemned by Jesus repeatedly. A True Image Bearer would not look down his nose at, avoid, or judge those who don't hold to his or her standards. Instead, he lives in freedom and prays for and encourages others to treasure relationship with Jesus.
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~~ Norm Wakefield The Curse of the Standard Bearers Part 1 11/07

I like Norm, I think we have established this...
My husband likes Norm.
If I could... I would have Norm and his lovely bride over for the weekend to visit...
that is how much I like Norm.
Norm can rebuke with out ever making you feel stupid,
but in that loving way, as to let you know...
that there is grace...
(to read Norms article in it's entirety, just click on the name of it highlighted...)
"William Young, author of The Shack, described a man's encounter with God. It caught my attention, and I think it relates to Satan's scheme. He wrote that there are a lot of smart people who are able to say a lot of right things from their brain because they have been told what the right answers are, but they don't know Jesus Christ at all. So really, how can their answers be right even if they are correct? Even though they might be correct, they are still wrong." Norm Wakefield The Curse of the Standard Bearers Part 2 12/07
I too agreed with Mr. Young on this one point, though not with every point made in his book. This point was one that resonated with me.... It really is more simply put... that with Christ... The ends NEVER justify the means.... The getting there is so a part of it, so one of the points of it... So having the "cheat sheet" means you fail.

Yet sometimes in life, there are people that will come into your sphere, that matter to you. They matter for various reasons, and sometimes, these people are people whom Norm describes; they are "Standard bearers"... everything you do, can become a standard, everything you do has to have some "reason", and suddenly there is no room to breath... or, more commonly, everything THEY do, or believe is a standard, something you need to live up to, or perhaps there is a book, a belief system, a church... They have standards, and sometimes, their standards can change from week to week... the very act of trying to live up to these kinds of expectations, can be overwhelming, heartbreaking, and spiritually damaging...
So you either try to live up to the Standard and everything "seems" cool...
or you live in a place of grace
and let the healing, living waters of Christ Jesus wash over you,
cleansing you of this hurt...
and you are so so so not cool with the "Standard Bearers...
this can be very painful,
there can be gossip, rejection, excommunication,
but you are so good with the Spirit of God,
you walk with HIM, and He is the point.
Well, God has made it pretty clear to me, to us,
that Grace need abound in our hearts
in our homes...
That Christ Jesus lives here,
and there is no room for anyone else but Him here...
I can not live up to any one's expectations of me
I dare not have any expectations of anyone else either, anymore....
It hurts them, it hurts me, it wounds Christ...
and He has been wounded enough...

I don't want a Pharisee's life for my children...
I want them to enjoy real fellowship with the Spirit of God,
real relationship with Christ their King,
I pray for them, to be able to see the other side of the torn veil....

Colossians

"1Therefore if you have been raised up with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is,seated at the right hand of God.
2Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth.
3For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God.
4When Christ, who is our life, is revealed, then you also will be revealed with Him in glory"
If you want to learn more about Standard Bearing, please click on the link, and read Norms articles at www.spiritofelijah.com , his ministry is truly ... ministry to the soul...